Holiday Activities To Bring People Together

Last Updated: December 22, 2025By Categories: Self-Kindness

The holidays are officially upon us, and if you have glanced at a calendar, or even stepped into a store lately, you probably noticed just how quickly they crept up.

This time of year often comes with a mix of excitement and anticipation, especially when it means getting to spend time with friends and family.

The big question after everyone arrives

Some of us see our loved ones all the time, while others only get the chance to reunite during the holiday season.

Either way, once everyone finally arrives and settles in, there is often one big question hanging in the air.

What do we do now?

Do we stay in and relax, or do we try to make every moment an event?

While it might feel overwhelming at first, there are plenty of simple, enjoyable ways to make the most of holiday time together.

Simple ways to spend time together

While it might feel overwhelming at first, there are plenty of simple, enjoyable ways to make the most of holiday time together.

These moments don’t have to be complicated to feel meaningful.

Open Christmas presents together

While gifts themselves are exciting, the experience of opening them as a group is what really makes the moment special.

Sitting around the tree, watching reactions, laughing at funny surprises, and seeing the thought people put into their gifts helps create lasting memories.

While the gift-giving and the gifts themselves will look different from year to year, the shared excitement and togetherness never really changes.

Bake something together

Whether it’s cookies, brownies, cake, or a family recipe that has been made every year for as long as you can remember, baking is a perfect group activity.

It allows everyone to pitch in, whether they are measuring the flour out or rolling the dough, and the smell of baked goods filling the house instantly makes it feel more festive.

Even if things don’t turn out perfectly, the fun is really in the process, not the final product.

Watch a movie or TV series

This is a common, go-to holiday activity for many families and friend groups.

With so many streaming platforms available, there is no shortage of options to choose from.

Whether you decide to watch a holiday classic, start a new television series, or rewatch an old favorite that has nothing to do with Christmas, sitting together with blankets and snacks can be one of the most relaxing ways to spend time.

It’s low effort, comforting, and gives everyone a chance to unwind.

Visit a public light display

If you’re looking to get out of the house, visiting a public light display is a great seasonal option.

Many towns and cities decorate parks, streets, or public spaces with festive lights during the holidays.

Walking through these displays can feel magical, especially at night when everything is glowing.

It’s also a nice excuse to bundle up, get some fresh air, and snap a few photos to remember the moment.

Enjoy a warm beverage and treats

Simply enjoy a warm beverage and some treats together.

Hot chocolate, coffee, tea, or cider paired with cookies or seasonal snacks can turn into a surprisingly meaningful tradition.

Sitting around the table or on the couch with a warm drink encourages conversation and gives everyone a chance to slow down and enjoy each other’s company without distractions.

If you want more ideas that support slowing down, see 10 Simple Ways to Practice Self-Kindness Every Day.

Have fun in the snow

For those who enjoy winter weather, having fun in the snow can be a highlight of the season.

If you are lucky enough to get snow where you live, activities like sledding, building snowmen, or simply just taking a walk outside can be a fun way to make memories.

Snow has a way of making everything feel lighter and more playful, even for adults who usually prefer staying indoors.

Simply sit down and chat

Simply sit down and chat. Life can be incredibly busy, and it is very easy to forget how valuable uninterrupted conversation can be.

Taking time to catch up, share stories, talk about the past year, or just listen can strengthen relationships in ways that no activity ever could.

These quiet moments are often the ones people remember most.

Why the simplest moments feel the most special

At the end of the day, the holidays don’t need to be packed with nonstop plans or expensive outings.

The best moments often come from the simplest activities, especially when they’re shared with people you care about.

Time spent together is what lasts

Whether you’re opening gifts, baking, watching movies or tv shows, exploring lights, sipping warm drinks, playing in the snow, or just talking, what truly matters is the time spent together.

Those moments of connection are what make the holiday season feel special year after year.

For more on how small moments of connection can ripple outward, see The Power of Kindness: How It Can Truly Change Your Life.

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About The Author

Louisa Hammond

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Louisa Hammond graduated summa cum laude from Concordia University in St. Paul in May 2025, double-majoring in English with an emphasis in creative writing and theater. During her time at Concordia, she worked for the college newspaper, where she wrote more than a dozen pieces. During her final semester of college, she wrote a novelette titled The Call of the Sea and hopes to publish a full-length story someday. Some of her other hobbies include reading, performing, and knitting.

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